I have this unique ability to step back into people's lives when they need me most. I am not totally sure if it's the other way around, though. I've learned to accept that I have a talent of taming the crazy. People get crazy or overly emotional when they got stuck in their own bubble. I will pop your bubble. The world is a big place, don't forget to look around and see it. 'POP'
This post is really not about much. Maybe more of a little update to the present. I have reconcided my friendship with a cousin not a day after her boyfriend broke up with her. She had told me that after I had written her off last year, things kinda just spiraled down into the darkness. Now I'm not sure if that means I lit the way for her while I was around, or if I was the first domino to fall. Either way I hope she's taking a step back to see the world for what it is. Just a turn of a single page into the next chapter of her life.
I have decided NOT to reconcile a relationship with a different cousin. But she took her 2 kids and moved across the country to be by her mother and make something of herself. I wish her the best.
Hubby and I are the closest we've been in years. Ya ya, I know I talk about relationships and love a lot, but I never once said I had a perfect marriage. Quite the contrary. We have both been playing active role to strengthen our marriage but it always went by the wayside. I was kinda miserable for a bit and kept fighting through it....alone. Well, I put my foot down and popped his bubble. So far, every day is a little more fabulous.
What else can I tell you? We've been to Las Vegas, we're going to Sedona, Arizona. We've hacked a tree in the front of the house and we are having house guests that got us Ryder Cup tickets. But I'm not going because I want hubby & one of his best friends to have a good time. Right now is a time where I get to coast. It's so weird, not to be fighting against something.
I get to work out, run, be healthy and focus on just being happy. Yay me! I wish everyone gets to experience a break like this. I think we're planning on the whole baby business next month, so cross your fingers and maybe I'll get to blog out shananagins in baby making.
So, with a whole lotta nothing really being said. I wish all of you a wonderful day! May you be blessed with little fabulous experiences and may you smile the entire time.
Lovingly, Merry Ms Berry
