A little Naughty goes a long way

The past week I was in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic for my sister's wedding with a couple dozen of friends and family. It was the first tropical and week long vacation that I have taken with my husband....ever. It was fabulous! A lot of craziness when down including myself in the madness of it all. As I am looking back on all the sha-na-na-gins and trying to piece together a few foggy days, I remember one of the first drunken evenings we had and it started to make me think more about marriages and what it really takes to keep them healthy and together.

Now with that being said, the couple in question IS NOT ME AND MY HUSBAND!!! I cannot stress that enough.

After a fun day of drinking and eating and more drinking, a handful of us decided to take a walk down to the beach in the moonlight. Well....we never made it to the beach. Instead I had this great idea of skinny dipping. Considering my free spirit and wild child past, you would have thought I would have been a ton of times. Until last week I have never been. I know!

2 pools, more beer, a doobie and a bunch of clothing later, there we were in our birthday suits just enjoying one another's naked company. Since the entire lot of us were entirely inebriated and not caring about anything else except our own little worlds the nakedness felt natural and also expected.

The next thing I know is I see a girl going down on her man. Oh my! Go them! A few moments later I see her climb her man like a steed and proceed to have her way with all of him. Now at this point I decided that I am NOT that much of a free spirit to interrupt them and go to the other end of the pool to let them have their lovely moment in the moonlight. I was later informed that a few moments after she mounted him, he took control and proceeded to pound her into the pool tile. Woo hoo! Free porn for the resort workers. Which I might add took their time doing laps around our particular pool. Meanwhile I took refuge in the shadows of the pool away from spying eyes. Drunk.....? Definitely. Oblivious......? Not even close.

A couple days later we were all talking about said situation and I come to find out more about my friends the exhibitionists. He works day, she works nights and weekends. They have 2 small children and really don't ever have time to themselves. If given an inch then they were taking a mile. This was one of the few times that they actually had just time to themselves to focus on one another. They were going to make every second count no matter who was there to witness the beauty of their love making. And so be it. I am proud to call them my friends. Now I don't recommend this anywhere else than a locked up resort with all inclusive alcohol. But I appreciate them taking the time to make sure they show each other how much they love and miss one another. Like my other friend said, "there's nothing wrong with some free porn. It's nature."

I guess since it's just hubby and I now, and the pets, no children, I am completely spoiled by his company. Yes we still paw each other but there's no death defying pool acts of love going on at the house because we have only each other when ever we want. So here's to you parents of multiple of children. Get your pounding on and making your marriage work, no matter who's watching.

Loving in awe and a little bit of shock, Merry Ms Berry