We are going to learn how to live on purpose, together. Act on purpose and feel with a sense of logic. Example: I love my husband because he makes me feel good about myself. Not only is that an emotional statement but it's also a logical statement. Feelings are a blessing that not all animals share, but we as humans have the ability to rationalize, justify, dissect and control how we want to feel. We don't have to just run around all pure emotion. I believe we are all meant for more than that.
People are human, and with being human we are allowed to make mistakes but we are also allowed to fix those mistakes. When you live ON purpose, you take responsibility for ALL that is happening in your life. You choose to have certain people in your life, and when choosing to keep them you have to except that they are human and are going to make mistakes. You can either except it and give them the opportunity to right the wrongs or you can have them leave, please exit stage left.
There are things in this world that are dropped in our laps with no explanation but that's just part of life. The universe is not here to crap on us, it brings things into our paths to test us. Whether we need to work on ourselves physically, emotionally or spiritually. These lessons are to be learned and if not you are deemed to repeat them. We, and I mean everyone, every.single.one.of.us, at one point in our lives will be handed a deck of cards, some good, some complete and utter SHIT! Whether a crappy parent (hint), psycho douche bags (hint), back stabbing bff's (hint) or a physical ailment brought on from outside sources (hint), we all, in one way or another will have to deal with these things.
BUT, there's hope. Because you are the only one that is in control of how you act, what you feel and how you are doing to handle said situation. So think about it....what does getting mad, whining and cursing the universe actually solve?......take your time......almost ready.......NOTHING! It solves absolutely nothing. So instead why don't you use that energy towards something that would be useful like feeling better, or loving someone or even taking a quiet stroll around the block to organize your thoughts and bless God that you are able to have another day above ground to make everything better for yourself and for the world around you (phew how about that being a run on sentence?). I know, I am the dying optimist....but we need more of "ME's" in the world. Peace, love and recycling DAMMIT!! Where's my Cape!? (see previous post about "Moral Avenger")
So in conclusion....stop blaming the world around you. Being whiny solves nothing. Take the time to sit back, regroup and keep going. Wasting energy on things that won't matter 5 years or even 1 year from now aren't worth it. Like scratched cars, flat tires, or a snagged pantyhose, it's not going to bring the world to an end, not even your world. If you fight yourself getting upset, ask yourself why and will it matter when you're on your death bed? Most likely not. Most of the time we have to go through the doodie to end up smelling like roses. (I love that saying). So learn something from the doodie.
Cosmically yours, Merry Ms Berry
P.S. my "hint" = a few cards of mine.
P.P.S I will give you a good example next. xoxo
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