I'm only talking from experience.
I know that there are going to be skeptics that think that I'm talking out of my ass, and for that fact, aren't we all really doing that anyway. One thing I love to do is hang back and watch people. When I used to work at one of the largest Country-Western bars in IL (what's the difference between country & western music or dance, that I'll never know), I would go in and find in a corner with a hat on, by the back bar, always by one of my besties. What I know now is what I can share with those that went through what I had already gone through.
Why am I someone to read? I was never afraid of dating, breaking up with boyfriends, taking them back, exposing my feelings when I felt them, I was when it came to dating. I knew what I wanted and since I held myself to high standards of awareness, I knew in my heart my other half had to out there. And he was, battling his own battles to find me. Unlike a lot of people, I learned from an early age that with anything that when you fail or something ends you need to learn from it or be doomed to repeat it. From my parents, their friends and friends of my own, I watched their struggles and successes and learned from them all.
Even though I am a stubborn, Scorpio Pollack, I am always willing to learn. From the stint of being the "one date max" girl to have a few longer relationships, I was always blessed with filling up my time with what exactly I wanted. If I wanted to be single and wreak havoc, I gave myself that opportunity. The moment I wanted someone in my life, I had someone (maybe not the one that should have been there but always still someone). I am blessed with the mouth to socialize and am able to draw people into me. How....eye contact! Try it, its awesome!
More soon...love you!
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