There are times when the line between love and sex are as scribbly as a 2 year old coloring cracked out on sugar with no nap. With that said, some times we as women think that sex is tied directly to love. When it comes to men, that's not always the case. Sometimes we equate amazing sex with something deeper and more meaningful when sometimes its just a physical compatibility. As a woman who's had relationships of great sex/awful compatibility and good sex/amazing compatibility, I can tell you I would take the later any day. You can always work up to amazingly, off the wall, monkey sex. But its harder to work out a relationship if you 2 just can't get along.
And how about a relationship that is so lacking that there's not much outside of the bedroom? Are we able to become so emotionally unavailable and detached that just purely physical relations could exist for a long period of time? I have found that as physically wonderful a relationship might be, if its just that, emotion is able to find its way into the equation from one side or another, kinda messing things up.
As great as "friends with benefits" situations can be they are always short lived and someone's feeling always get hurt. Shit, even Samantha Jones got hurt, no one is safe. Word to the wise.
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