First you have to decide what kind of emotional state you are in. I found that with myself I needed to be in a certain frame of mind when getting a guy and which kind of guy did I want. There had been times where I just wanted some attention but was not looking for anything close to a relationship. And then there were times when I was ready to be in a relationship again. I know there are people in the world where they just want to be in relationships all the time. I've even been put into a position where I didn't want to be in a relationship but somehow got manipulated into one. How, I blame alcohol but that's another story.
So, what do you want? Say it out loud and remember what you say, because more than likely you are going to get exactly that.
For those who want to find and end up with Mr. Right, instead of Mr. Right now, listen up.
Be------your------self! Be yourself!
Do the things you love and try to make friends with those you have the same interests. Or try new things that you want to there or would like in a potential mate. When you talk to new people, be yourself, be yourself, be yourself.
That doesn't matter if you're over the top, slightly shy, clumsy or can't dress yourself. Don't you want someone to fall in love with you for you? I have a whole list of things that you can do to just "get a guy" or girl for that matter. But if there are not things you would naturally do, that you are catching someone on false pretenses. Also, being yourself right off the back weeds out the people who are not good for you right away.
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