If I were your friend and someone was obsessively calling you I would steal your phone and put it on silent. Ya know why, because that's exactly what I wished someone had done for me.
I dated this guy that was completely psycho and when I wanted out he threatened to make my life hell because he said he wanted to hurt me like I was hurting him, even though I just wanted to leave. He was one big giant (and ugly) ball on insecurity. The messed up part is that I was in such an open and giving place and I didn't have the heart to hurt this guy. I saw what he tortured himself with everyday but it wasn't until he went after my friends and family is when I had to put a stop to it.
At the time, I wish I would have turned off my cell and gotten a new number. I thought since I had my number for so long that I needed to keep it. I do love my cell phone number but the people that would need it are the same people's numbers that I have memorized. Ok, if you lose a friend because of a bad relationship, they weren't your friends.
By the grace of God, I will never cross paths with this douche bag again. But learn from me!!! You are worthy of love and grace! Anything less and just hang up the phone and go for a walk.
MryMsBry
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